Sex Ed In Schools
I was just wondering how people feel about sex education in schools. There is a debate among some politicians over whether we should have abstinence-only education or whether we should teach about contraceptive use. I personally feel that we should not have either, but instead should a seek a non-biased approach to sex education. There is plenty of information about contraceptive use available to students/teenagers. If a teenager choses to engage in sexual activity, I feel that it is up to the individual and to the individual's parents to educate themselves, but public education should stay out of it. Perhaps high schools could have resource centers available in nurse's offices or in counselour's offices, but the issue does not need to be discussed in class. I was never really taught by either approach in middle school or high school....we were just taught the facts and it was our responsibility to find out more. Anyone I knew who chose to engage in sexual activity, was well aware of contraceptive options without it being addressed in the classroom. I think we should give students/teenagers more credit and more accountability. That is, I think teenagers are fully capable of educating themselves and engaging in safe sex. How do others feel about this issue? Do you think we should have abstinence only sex ed, contraceptive education, or neither?
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No one is going to ask the nurse or the principal or anybody for sexual information. It has to be given, yes sex ed should ideally be taught by parents, and yes, it isn't necessarily a good idea to engage in sexual education as a middle schooler. But think about it, if it means that one less unwanted baby is born isn't ath worth it?
for me, even though we will do sex ourselves, shouldn't we learn even some infos about it? just to be aware of what might happen if we are not careful on what we're doing. and huskygirl87 is right. not all parents let their children know the right informations about sex. all they say is "you're too young to know it. you can know it when you're at the right age." they're too strict about those things sometimes. and sex ed is a great help for people and not just for children.
Just because in Seattle we've been lucky enough to know about birth control, does not mean that everyone in the country is aware of the facts. It's ignorant to assume that just because we know information about condoms that everyone our age does. If it is not taught about in school, then how will kids get the proper information? If we leave it to the parents, how do you account for the children in the foster system or even just from parents who don't feel comfortable discussing it? I've encountered plenty of parents with the "just don't do it" attitude rather then informational attitude. It is an extremely touchy subject, however and I can see the merits of both sides. However, Sarah Palin took the abstinence only approach and she's about to be a grandmother...
Way to play the grandma card. The bottom line is that education helps people make informed decisions. So, why wouldn't we want to provide young people with the proper information - information that covers birth control and abstinence equally.
I believe that comprehensive sexual health education should be taught in schools.
Why?
1)This program teaches everything from Abstinence to Contraceptive use. Sex is an activity humans engage in for most of their lives. Teens should be given the information they need about their body. This is HEALTH information on an activity that most likely will be frequented in this teens life. I believe a third party program, such as the ones planned parenthood provides, should be used for this, because teachers have caused problems in the past. For instance, one teacher told his class that "condoms don't work", however, the students didn't stop having sex, instead they stopped using condoms.
2. Yes, i completely agree that parents should teach children about sex according to their principles. However, many parents will not. Also, by the time schools get around to it, half of the students are already sexually active. Now imagine if you are in an abstinence only class. Are you going to listen, when none of the things that are being talked about apply to you?
These are exactly the points I've been trying to make. Because we live in such a sexualized society, to ignore the issue of sex would be completely ignorant. And the chances of a parent taking advantage of resources like Planned Parenthood are very low, which is why a comprehensive program should be taught in schools.
I get all my stats from the planned parenthood website, which is a very credible source. I am wondering where you get yours from. Yes, they agree that pregnancy is going down while diseases are going up, but they could be lower since we have the highest levels compared to all other comparable countries. I'm sensing other contridictions in stats.
I also think it is just not sex that the schools are teaching. They also teach heavily on conscent laws, lawful definitions, and abuse. And when theres a lot of teens cramped in one school, it is important that they are fully prepared. That is why most schools have special counselors for these kinds of topics, so that when things go wrong and get violent, then students can be safer.
Studies show that 98% of sexually active women (15-44) use contraception. People know about contraception and there is no lack of information about it, no matter where you live in the United States. Also, pregnancy rates have decreased dramatically, nearly 40% since 1991. However, STD rates have increased dramatically, especially rates for incurable and especially damaging STDS. Why? Perhaps it is because we are perpetuating a myth that there is such a thing as "safe sex." Contraception can always fail, and it does(60% of pregnancies in the U.S. are unplanned). Also, many methods of contraception do not protect against STDs and even if you use a condom to protect yourself from STDS, it may break. I think that perpetuating a myth that teens can have sex free of consequences is an awful idea and only has brings detrimental effects.
safe sex does exist. Just using a condom doesn't make sex "safe". Knowing your partner and their sexual history adds to that. If they've slept with fifteen other people, chances are they could have an STD. But if they've never been sexually active and contraceptives are PROPERLY used, the chances of contracting an STD is astronomically low. The chances of people protecting themselves more when being sexually active is much greater than the chance of persuading the american society that you either abstain or get pregnant- thats really not how it goes. Especially in society like today where sex is everywhere you look. Its a topic that needs to be dealt with, not ignored.
To say that an abstinance-only program or no program at all would work in educating America's youth about safe-sexual activity is highly mistaken. There are numerous statistics proving that an abstinance-only program restricts students from being safe because they are only given two options: dont have sex, or have sex and get pregnant. A comprehensive program is the best approach. Teach students that abstinance is the best way to refrain from pregnancy, STDs and HIV/AIDS, but if you choose to not be abstinent, there are many ways to be safe. Condoms aren't always the best choice as a contraceptive and many students don't know this. Ever heard of the saying "better safe than sorry"? Telling a student what options enable safe-sex doesnt encourage sex. You also have to take into account how many parents DONT talk to their children about sex due to awkwardness, denial, etc. Just look at the teen pregnancy rates in the US. They're astronomical. If we were to better educate our youth about sex on a dual level, not an abstinance only level and not by turning a blind eye, we could drastically decrease these disturbing numbers.
Teen pregnancy has been falling since 1991, it is actually historically low. Nobody is really sure why either.
true, but just because teen pregnancy is declining doesn't mean it can't be prevented even more, yes?
My point about saying nothing at all should be taught is that I do not think it is the school's place to teach students about sex in that way. One of the reasons is because many parents would rather teach it themselves, and I know I will feel this way when I am a parent. It is the parent and the individual's responsibility. The school should stay out of it. Also, teenagers do not need the Internet do know that they should use a condom. Lastly, I think that there should be information available in schools for students to obtain, because I understand that some people do not have easy access to lots of information. However, I just do not believe that contraceptive use or abstinence needs to be taught explicitly in schools. Every parent has their own opinion on the issue and it should be up to them what to teach.
It has been proven by congress some time ago that abstinence only programs increase risky behaviors. Yet, because the money is tied to certain curricula, schools have no choice.
As for your experiance in school, you are lucky. In some states, schools are not even required to give medically acurrate facts. They can lie. I'm not sure why saying nothing at all is better than giving teens comprehensive information and recourses. I'm confused on that point still because there is not plenty of info out there. The US is still a varied place with things like internet access very low in rural areas.
That has not been proven by congress, research only tells us that there is little if any positive impact. Just because kids do not listen to everything they are told, does not mean that abstinence only is inherently bad. Unless you live under a rock, every kid knows about birth control and condoms, abstinence onlyis not going to prevent that.